Reminder that there are commercials for products to help men with sexual dysfunction but we never talk about women with sexual dysfunction or hear about products geared toward helping those women.
Women experiencing sexual dysfunction are not believed. They are told they need “better experiences”. In other words, that they just need to get fucked better in order to enjoy sex.
Women experiencing sexual dysfunction have very few options or therapeutic methods available to them that are rooted in good research and science. Instead, what limited options are available, are rooted in preconceptions about female sexual arousal taught by men.
A women having good sex is not seen as something important or worth fixing. So long as a man can still perform, no one seems to give a shit.
There are young men and women up and down the land who happily (or unhappily) tell anyone who will listen that they don’t have an academic turn of mind, or that they aren’t lucky enough to have been blessed with a good memory, and yet can recite hundreds of pop lyrics and reel off any amount of information about footballers. Why? Because they are interested in those things. They are curious. If you are hungry for food, you are prepared to hunt high and low for it. If you are hungry for information it is the same. Information is all around us, now more than ever before in human history. You barely have to stir or incommode yourself to find things out. The only reason people do not know much is because they do not care to know. They are incurious. Incuriosity is the oddest and most foolish failing there is.